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In the past, I’d have sought that comfort out in a white man, but that night I knew it wouldn’t be enough.
It’s not that I don’t think white people are anxious; two months into Trump’s presidency, most of the white people in my life are activated.
Dear Irishman, the next time you set your green eyes on me, remember this: There’s more to me than my colour. There’s more to me than the body that you have unjustly exotified because you refuse to look at what I can offer you intellectually. ‘Men will talk to me and say they think I’m beautiful and sexy, but it’s almost always because of my race.
I wasn’t brought to this world to explore your sexual curiosity and I do not exist to fulfil your sexual needs. ‘Over the last few months, since I downloaded Plenty of Fish, Tinder and OK Cupid, I’ve been experiencing this kind of attitude.
We share our culture sometimes to our own peril and most of us love the very notion of love.
I think this is because in Ireland interracial relationships aren’t as common as other places.’ She says that the reason many men approach her is because sex with a black woman is seen as something new – unlike men in places like London or New York.
You make us feel like an object that you will eventually get bored of and toss out after having derived maximum pleasure from us. Because when you sexualise us you are merely reminding us that you don’t actually see us. ‘This isn’t just black women though – it’s Asian women too.
They’re in the streets, calling senators and congressmen, attending community board meetings, and holding sign-making parties. But while the political universes of my white friends are cracking open, I’m feeling more inclined than ever to cloister myself.
I’ve gone on a few dates with white guys in the last few months, and the same thing always happens.
There is this notion that after dealing with one two many Black f*ckboys–I specify because they do come in all colors– Black women are turning to men of other races, specifically White men.